国外旅游博主哈维（Tomiko Harvey）分享亲身经历，她在长途航班上拒绝给邻座女乘客让座，对方竟因此嚎啕大哭长达3小时，而她的丈夫则自顾自在座位上呼呼大睡，引发网友热议。哈维本人则幽默自嘲，这趟飞行让她不禁怀疑，自己“对老公的爱似乎还不够深”。️ İstanbul'dan ABD'ye yapılan 10 saatlik uçuşta, eşinin yanında oturabilmek için başka bir yolcudan koltuk değiştirmesini isteyen kadın yolcunun talebi reddedilince üç saat boyunca ağladığı öne sürüldü. Uçak yolculuklarında koltuk değişimi, yolcular arasında zaman zaman tartışmalara neden olurken, bu olay da kişisel beklentiler ile diğer yolcuların kendi koltuklarında oturma hakkı arasındaki hassas dengeyi yeniden gündeme taşıdı. Olayın 9 Ekim'de İstanbul'dan Washington'a yapılan uçuşta yaşandığı, yolcunun Tomiko Harvey olduğu ve görüntülerin sosyal medyada yayıldığı kaydedildi.
— herdem_aviation (@muratherdemm) October 19, 2026
《纽约邮报》报道，在Instagram拥有2.4万粉丝的哈维表示，当时她刚前往哈萨克斯坦奔丧，送别去世的父亲，返程搭乘从伊斯坦布尔飞往华盛顿特区的10小时长途航班。飞行途中，坐在中间座位的一名女乘客主动开口，希望哈维能让出靠过道的座位，因为她想和丈夫坐在一起。
哈维婉拒了对方的要求，没想到这名女乘客当场情绪崩溃，哭泣持续长达3小时。哈维在帖子中写道，她最后忍不住询问对方是不是有家人去世，“不然谁会哭整整3小时啊？”然而对方回答，她只是“想靠在丈夫肩膀上”。
哈维提到，这名女乘客口中“朝思暮想”的丈夫其实坐在前两排的中间座位，全程戴着耳机呼呼大睡，对妻子的哭闹浑然不觉。等航班落地后，哈维忍不住有些讽刺地“恭喜”这名女乘客：“你居然撑过了没有老公陪伴的10个小时，真厉害啊！”
网友对此纷纷声援哈维，多数人认为，如果有坐在一起的需求，就应该在订票时提前选座，而不是临时要求陌生乘客让座。
有网友讽刺道：“连10小时都离不开老公，却又不愿意提前付费选座，这怎么会是别人的问题？”还有人调侃：“说不定就是老公订的票，他只是需要一点喘息空间。”
A passenger allegedly spent three hours crying on a ten-hour flight after a woman refused to surrender her aisle seat so she could sit beside her husband. Travel blogger Tomiko Harvey was flying from Istanbul to Washington, D.C., after visiting Kazakhstan following her father’s death when a fellow passenger asked her to swap seats. The catch? Harvey would have to give up her aisle seat for a middle seat. When she refused, the woman allegedly burst into tears, explaining that she missed her husband and wanted to rest her head on his shoulder. Meanwhile, according to Harvey, her husband was just two rows away, wearing headphones and sleeping peacefully. Harvey eventually asked whether someone had died, given how upset the woman appeared. She later joked that she must not love her own husband enough. When they landed, Harvey sarcastically congratulated her seatmate for surviving ten hours without her husband. Her Instagram post attracted more than 90,000 likes, with many commenters defending her decision. Would you give up your aisle seat for a middle seat so a couple could sit together? #AirlineDrama #PassengerBehaviour #AirTravel
— Flightdrama (@flightdrama) October 19, 2026
